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Be My Guest

Reflections on Food, Community, and the Meaning of Generosity

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A thought-provoking meditation on food, family, identity, immigration, and, most of all, hospitality—at the table and beyond—that's part food memoir, part appeal for more authentic decency in our daily worlds, and in the world at large.
Be My Guest is an utterly unique, deeply personal meditation on what it means to tend to others and to ourselves—and how the two things work hand in hand. Priya Basil explores how food—and the act of offering food to others—are used to express love and support. Weaving together stories from her own life with knowledge gleaned from her Sikh heritage; her years spent in Kenya, India, Britain, and Germany; and ideas from Derrida, Plato, Arendt, and Peter Singer, Basil focuses an unexpected and illuminating light on what it means to be both a host and a guest. Lively, wide-ranging, and impassioned, Be My Guest is a singular work, at once a deeply felt plea for a kinder, more welcoming world and a reminder that, fundamentally, we all have more in common than we imagine.
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    • AudioFile Magazine
      British author and political activist Priya Basil's crisp articulation and easy pronunciation of other languages reflect her multicultural background in this collection of insightful essays. The works consider the implications of hospitality beyond hosting guests. There is tenderness in Basil's voice as she shares vivid memories of her mother's cooking and explores the significance of food as an important expression of love and nurturing--both in the giving and receiving. Basil passionately explains that how we prepare and serve a meal, whom we eat with, and even the life of a family recipe are all important elements intertwined with our identity. A country's hospitality and the guests that accept it are also considered in Basil's penetrating observations. Thoughtful and thought-provoking, Basil's philosophical words and precise delivery invite contemplation. M.F. © AudioFile 2020, Portland, Maine
    • Publisher's Weekly

      Starred review from February 17, 2020
      Novelist Basil (Strangers on the 16:02) draws on memoir, storytelling, religion, politics, and philosophy in this delightful and ruminative culinary cultural study. A British-Indian writer raised in Kenya and now living in Berlin, Basil playfully begins this series of observations with the most primal guest-host relationship: “Mothers... host us as no one else can—in their bodies. A nine-month gestation. Guest-ation?” Her own constant hunger for food as a child illustrates “the consumption epidemic ravaging our capitalist societies.... Our appetites must keep increasing to propel the economy.” She explores food as power and writes of women cooking for “the affections of the family,” in addition to reflecting on colonial India, where British administrators in 1876 ordered “a week-long feast for 68,000 officials” while “an estimated 100,000 Indians starved to death.” Growing up Sikh in a Kenyan-Indian community, Basil struggled to “work out our place in the world,” understood “the edge of the plate is like a border,” and saw how the religious tradition of Langar, a post-worship communal meal, fostered “equality between all human beings and service to the community.” Later, as she explains, those experiences guided her work with refugee advocacy groups in Germany. Basil’s powerful intellectual curiosity is sure to intrigue readers.

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