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The Great Belonging

How Loneliness Leads Us to Each Other

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Loneliness has reached epidemic proportions, according to many sources. In an age of mobility and fraying civic life, we are all susceptible to its power. But what if loneliness is a necessary part of the human condition? What if it is a current that leads us deeper into belonging—to ourselves, to each other, and to God?

In The Great Belonging, writer and spiritual director Charlotte Donlon reframes loneliness and offers us a language for the disquiet within. Instead of turning away from the waters of loneliness for fear they will engulf us, she invites us to wade in and see what we find there. In vulnerable, thoughtful prose, Donlon helps us understand our own occasional or frequent loneliness and offers touchpoints for understanding alienation. We can live into the persistent questions of loneliness. We can notice God's presence even when we feel alone in our doubts. Ultimately, Donlon claims, we can find connection that emerges from honesty, and she offers tools, resources, and practices for transforming loneliness into true belonging.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      September 14, 2020
      Donlon, host of the Hope for the Lonely podcast, examines loneliness through a Christian lens in her evocative debut. In explaining the connection between loneliness and belonging, Donlon notes, “We can inhabit a posture of curiosity when we recognize loneliness as part of the human condition. Loneliness, at its heart, is a longing for more closeness with God.” Donlon reflects on accepting loneliness “as a normal companion,” whether it is felt occasionally or frequently; details statistics about stigmas attached to expressing loneliness; and emphasizes being honest about one’s feelings: “admitting I struggle with loneliness, talking about it, and writing about it have helped me let go of shame.” She discusses examples of loneliness as it relates to questions of one’s purpose, the dissolution of a relationship, mental illness, grief, or loss of faith. Donlon also includes suggestions for transforming occasions of loneliness into opportunities for drawing closer to others and God. For instance, in her “Meditations for Belonging” section she provides meditations that will get readers in the right mindset for meeting with a new friend, visiting a museum, or taking a nature walk. When loneliness seems overwhelming, she reminds herself: “There’s grace to be lonely, to know it’s normal to be lonely.” Donlon’s comforting work will appeal to any Christian looking to stave off the negative aspects of isolation.

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