Finding Your Yes

March 29, 2021
Wagoner, associate regional director of InterVarsity Christian Fellowship, examines the potential of accepting new challenges in her uplifting debut. “More often than not,” she writes, “I have initially answered no to what eventually turned out to be the most meaningful opportunities in my life.” Though Wagoner’s natural tendency is to play it safe, she discovered confidence, freedom, and growth in her relationship with God by embracing new experiences. She cites personal examples, scriptures, and the experiences of others, challenging readers to consider “what if there’s a yes buried in the no?” For instance, Wagoner initially didn’t think she was the right person to lead a sorority Bible study, but reconsidered, leading to 20 years of full-time ministry. Wagoner identifies some of the “obstacles to yes,” including fear, feelings of inadequacy, hidden biases, and past pains; then she divulges tools to overcome them, such as acknowledging weaknesses, allowing scriptures to redefine negative self-perceptions, writing prayers, and listening to trusted friends. This insightful guide affirms how opening to new possibilities is essential to living out Christian principles.