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You Can't Joke About That

Why Everything Is Funny, Nothing Is Sacred, and We're All in This Together

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What happens when we can't joke about some of the most important stuff in life?

In a 2019 study, 40% of people reported censoring themselves out of fear that voicing their views would alienate them from the people they care about most. Those people should probably not read this book in public.

In You Can't Joke About That, Kat Timpf shows why much of the way we talk about sensitive subjects is wrong. We've created all the wrong rules. We push ourselves into unnecessary conflicts when we should feel like we're all in this together. When someone says "you can't joke about that," what they really mean is "this is a subject that makes people sad or angry."

Hilariously and movingly, Timpf argues that those subjects are actually the most important to joke about. She shows us we can find healing through humor regarding things you probably don't want to bring up in polite conversation, like traumatic break-ups, cancer, being broke, Dave Chappelle, rape jokes, aging, ostomy bags, religion, body image, dead moms, religion, the lab leak theory, transgender swimmers, gushing wounds, campus censorship, and bad Christmas presents.

This book is Kat Timpf with her hair down, except since hers is mostly extensions, this book is Kat Timpf with her hair out. Read it because you want to get to know her better. Read it because it's the best book on free speech and comedy in a generation. Read it because you want to laugh out loud... even at the kind of stuff we're afraid to say out loud. Just read it, and you'll be glad you did.

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    • Kirkus

      June 15, 2023
      A libertarian TV personality defends comedy against a wide array of charges. "When someone says 'You can't joke about that, ' what they really mean is 'this is a subject that makes people sad or angry, ' " writes Timpf at the beginning. In the "sad" category are the deaths of close relatives and pets. In the "angry" column are racism, sexism, transphobia, body positivity, and the like. "Candor and comedy really do connect us as humans," writes the author. It's a good point, but it's difficult to ignore the politicized backdrop of the author's commentary, featuring repeated references to her essays for the National Review and position with Fox News. Some of Timpf's arguments are marred by logical fallacies. For example, a woman asked her how her mother felt about her grandmother's death. Sadly, Timpf's mother had also recently died, and she felt awkward saying so. If you don't understand why, she recommends, "the next time you're at a party, just try breaking a small-talk silence with the question 'So, who here do you think is gonna die first?' " The other person will likely "get weird," as she claims, but this does not prove the point that there is a widely enforced social stricture against talking about death. Elsewhere, the author makes solid, well-researched points in defense of freedom of speech. For example, in an amply documented chapter about the removal of problematic past episodes of TV shows from streaming services, she writes, "Although some people may see erasing what's become unacceptable as a sign of progress, signs of progress are exactly what you are erasing." Timpf recounts plenty of dust-ups and scandals involving comedians including Chris Rock, Norm MacDonald, Dave Chappelle, Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert, and more. "Comedy is my religion," she writes, but the relentless politicization of comedy makes this a less powerful call for unity than it might be. Those in the choir will enjoy the preaching; others may still find a few notes that resonate.

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